About us

Meet ChaoticSapphics

Two sapphics exploring love, games, media, and connection in queer life.

Our Story

ChaoticSapphics began because we couldn’t find many spaces that spoke honestly about sapphic relationships without flattening them into stereotypes. Everything felt either tragic, overly sexualized, or wrapped in advice that didn’t really fit queer lives.

This project grew out of our own experiences, loving deeply, navigating anxious and avoidant attachment patterns, craving closeness while fearing it at the same time, and trying to build a relationship that felt safer and more real. We wanted a place where those experiences could be talked about without shame, judgment, or pretending we had everything figured out.

But love doesn’t exist in a vacuum.

Board games, video games, books, and films have always been part of how we connect, how we spend intentional time together, how we laugh, compete, decompress, and see ourselves reflected (or not) in the stories we consume. Representation in media matters to us, not just politically, but personally. We care about how queer lives are portrayed, and we care about the ways games and stories create connection at the table and beyond it.

Here, we write about sapphic love, attachment, intimacy, media, and the everyday realities of queer life. We review games and culture through our lived experience, focusing not only on mechanics or plot, but on how something feels, how it shapes connection, conversation, and shared moments.

ChaoticSapphics is rooted in a few simple values: honesty over perfection, curiosity over blame, and care over spectacle. We believe sapphics deserve stories about love that don’t revolve only around pain, and cultural spaces where queer perspectives aren’t an afterthought.

This space is for sapphics who feel deeply, love imperfectly, and want to connect with themselves, with each other, and with the stories and games that bring us together.